Des OConnor, professional Life Coach and the only Black Dating Coach in the UK, has held his second, highly successful whole-day Dating and Life Coaching Workshop in London, Entitled "How To Find And Attract A Good Black Man", it was designed to help Black Women do just what it says on the tin.
It appeared to Des that there were a lot of single, professional, ambitious, strong Black Women who just wanted to find that special, good man to share their lives. Des has researched and learned ways that such women can find and attract that good man and has encapsulated them into his one-day programme. Des feels that he can be the "voice" of that Good Black Man and can impart his techniques on attraction to enhance the romantic lives of Black Women everywhere.
Des assists single women to live their best life and to be the best they can be in all they do and "How To Find And Attract A Good Black Man" is an event that provides help for single Black Women seeking to increase their chances of finding that Good Black Man. It is an opportunity for women to evaluate themselves, show them where to find these Good Black Men and to use simple, proven methods to attract them, instilling in them confidence that they can attract the man they want.
Des is the Dating Expert for the exciting new No 1 black achievers publication entitled "Ninety Nine Magazine" www.ninetyninemag.co.uk where Des provides dating tips and ideas for single Black Men and Women. Details of his upcoming events are in the next issue of the magazine.

Des's website, www.DesOConnors.com, is dedicated to helping Single Black Women and Single Black Men to get together. It was created to enable them to "wipe the slate clean" of previous failures and to be in a place in their lives where they are a whole person and to focus on what they want for their future.

Each Black Woman who leaves this Workshop will have a greater understanding of Black Men and how to use the social tools and resources Des imparts to them to find and attract the man of their dreams. The Workshop is designed to be so successful that the attendees may be spoilt for choice!

Apart from public Workshops, Des provides other methods of coaching to suit every individual. Coaching can be done via e-mail, the telephone, as one-to-one sessions, in groups at private homes and even whilst escorting Black Women to social events such as parties, weddings, the gym, networking events and raves. There, Des can boost their confidence and support them in the techniques they have learned. Assisting at social occasions is done very subtly and no one will know that Des is their dating coach. This is an extremely popular and successful way of implementing the techniques of finding and attracting that special man.

So, if you’re fed up waiting for Mr Right to come into your life and want to know what makes a Black Man tick, where they hang out and how to fast-track your dating success, this Workshop is for you.

Preparotory Workshop for Single Black Women - 28 November


Entitled "I Can Find You A Good Black Man", Des's final one-day Preparatory Workshop of 2009 will be on 28 November. This is being sponsored by "You're Beautiful, Woman!", the annual event celebrating black female beauty inside and out. Des's Workshop is a must if you really want to meet a Good Black Man.


Guesting at this Workshop will be Sonia Brown, Director of the National Black Women's Network and Founder of Sistatalk' the on-line networking site (www.Sistatalk.co.uk) who will work with us on,preparing for that Good Black Man. Sonia says 'Branding is all about communication. Regardless of age, regardless of position' regardless of the business we happen to be in, all of us need to understand the importance of taking care of our image. We live in a society that bases everything on image, so we need to understand the importance of the physical and psychological issues of how we present ourselves. I will show delegates how to make their image work for them, not against them!'


The Workshop will . . .


- Teach you what to expect on his future Dating and Life Coaching events

- Advise how to dress and what looks to avoid

- Tell you what to say and what not to say

- Let you know what questions to ask and what is taboo

- Replicate real life situations and involve you in role play on how to grab attention

- How to get the men you like to wine-and-dine you straight away

- How to spot the ones which are not for you


The Black Women who attended Des's previous Workshop were very excited when a Single, Good Black Man entered the room part way through the proceedings. He was an attractive and interesting man and the women could not believe he was single. But he was and there are plenty more like him if you know where to look and how to attract their attention.


Des had arranged a "panel" setting for his guest and invited the women to ask him any question they liked so that they could hear it direct from a Single, Good, Black Man. This question and answer session was an eye-opener and a revelation for the women - and Des's guest - AND DES!!

With this aspect of his coaching such a hit, Des will be repeating the exercise - this time with a group of Single Black Men. This will allow the attendees to get the points of view from several guys with different views and experiences.

Other advantages of attending this Preparatory Workshop are that you will have the opportunity to book your tickets for Des's Black Dating and Life Coaching Events WAY ahead of the rest of the single women . . . You can prepare yourself to meet up to 50 Good, Black Men at Des's Dating events - the one on the 15th of January is a GREAT way to start the New Year with the new, more confident YOU . . . and at all three Dating events you have a chance to meet your "Good Man" before Valentine's Day!


2010 Dating and Life Coaching Workshops for Single Black Men and Women

Des has had absolutely no trouble in gathering Black Women to his Dating events. These are invariably a sell-out and the waiting list grows. However, there is a huge reluctance on the part of Black Men to participate in what they may perceive could be a soul-searching and emotionally revealing activity. Generally, women WANT to discuss their lives but men DON'T.

In order to overcome this dearth of Good Black Men, a requirement for Des's upcoming Life Coaching and Dating events is that every Black Woman who attends must bring at least one quality, single man they believe to be a "Good, Black Man". This could be a brother, a cousin, a neighbour, their accountant, the guy who repairs their scooter - anyone they believe to be a "Good Black Man" and an ideal candidate for our Good Black Women. That way, Des can guarantee that every Black Woman will be able to communicate with up to 50 Good Black Men on the night and the calibre will be of HIGH quality.

Des already has a list of 50 Black Women who will bring along a male friend so meeting up to 50 Black Men at the Dating Events can be assured. Where else can you get this guarantee?

Any Single, Good Black Man is also invited to attend - but on their own, without a female guest. For female attendees, they can bring along as many Good Black Men as they wish. But, sorry girls, these upcoming Dating events are not designed for solo Black Women so you will not be able to come along without a Good Black Man in tow.